Wednesday, August 10, 2011

If you will just listen carefully.......

I believe communication is a really important part of human society. I do not know what will happen if there is no communication between people, but what I do know is that good communication fix problems between people. In addition, it helps a group to cooperate better.
In order to have a good communication with each other, listening will play the most important part of it.

If we somehow tuned out in the middle of a conversation, we will not get to know each other. It is especially worse when we are angry toward someone, if we just keep tuning out and not having a good conversation, the good friendship between the two will never become better. Misunderstandings are normally the biggest problem that causes people to have a fight with others. In my opinion, the best way to clear off misunderstood that caused the fight is to listen. When we will just listening carefully, we will no assume what others are saying. Then, we will not misunderstood other people's thoughts, eventually, the great communication keeps the strong relationships.

We can have a good communication skill when we practice them. First tip is that you should always think what you are going to say in your mind first, then say it out after thinking about it. Second tip is that don't speak when you are angry, because you will not have a clear idea of what you are saying at the moment. Simply tell people, "It's not the right time to talk."I think they will understand. Third tip is that you should never say something rude to a person or hiding some secrets behind them, because this will cause the relationship the break down when there is no trust in the relationship. Most importantly, listen carefully during the conversation, it will always bring good effect to the conversation.

1 comment:

  1. You have some good thoughts about communication. However, you have walked away from the theme of the video. Yes, you talked about listening and that it is an important element of communication. That's good. But the video talked simply about listening and how important it is and ways to improve your listening. Though you have helpful ideas, it would be better to stay focused on the subject matter of the video.

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